I'm not going to buy into your provocation, but I'd appreciate if you'd not put words in my mouth nonetheless.
How can you possibly ignore the fact that before everything I say, I firmly advocate choice and options? I'm not, in any way, at all, attempting to say that PvP is a horrible thing that should be removed. It's certainly not my style, but I would never take it away from those who enjoy it.
Is it so hard for you to understand that some people don't like the same things as you? It's a concept I've grasped very well, but if you are taking my simple requests for a chance to opt out as a high treason against any and all PvP activities, you may need some time to meditate on said concept.
As an aside, yes, I have been burned by PvPers before. I've been camped, ganked, harassed and downright bullied out of games because some people apparently can't respect others as human beings. Which is a shame.
But no, I do not blame all PvPers for this, nor do I think every PvPer is that sort of person. As with any group, there are many different kinds of people in it, and I always reserve my assessment of a person until I have had time to get to know them.
I have no vendetta against PvPers themselves as a whole. I do, however, have a problem with people of any group who bully, harass, disrespect or otherwise purposefully hurt others. This extends to any and everything, not just PvP.
As far as I'm concerned, a system that could help minimize the amount of unfair/unwanted/intrusive PvP encounters so that everyone can be a little happier would be a nice thing. Even in such a case, those who want to PvP would still PvP, and that's fine. However right now, even if you don't want to PvP, you don't have the option unless you hole yourself up in the city.. And that's not a lot of fun for the long term.
I have nothing against those who like different playstyles. I would just like more options, period.