When it comes to Kaleel, what I see is a qadir wandering around and strong-arming people. He doesn't care if he makes friends, only that he succeeds. And when it comes to nobility, you need to be able to make some friends. If you want to break down that barrier that's there, you need to do activities that show the ailor nobility that a qadir is worthy of ruling over others. You need to actively show you have grace and elegance to stand among families that have gone back for generations. You need to hold events that aim to impress, you need to strive to peacock, and you need to actually do something other than pursue justice. You are attempting to be the first Qadir to be granted a title, so you must replicate those you wish to stand with. Simply arguing that it isn't fair for players who choose ailors won't get you closer. And if they forget what you did already, then you shrug it off and try again. The road isn't closed, it just winds back and forth and up the mountain.
This, well, this has some good points for me. But I'd also like to bring the argument that Eira Sorenvik is similar to Kaleel in the 'strong-arm' factor and the 'only wanting to push her own agenda'. She is noble (for how much longer who knows). Kaleel has a personality, you know it all too well after working with him for some time in the Crimsons, and I think that your statements about him are valid.
So then I pose /this/ question, dear Doc. Should you alter your characters wishes for your own desire, or keep him how he is meant to be played and find a way to get where you want to be? Kaleel is not a leader, he's a soldier, he fights for the city (in his mind) and not for himself. He wants to represent those with little representation and HIS goal is not to gain land (it's my goal for him, that doesn't directly correlate to his thoughts. And he gained Duke-consort position through luck, and Apollonia), but simply fight the injustice that he sees in the city. He is a strong arm because that's the life he lives, and you state that he should be elegant, he can have a certain degree of this but he's a crude man that enjoys a bit of the Qadir liberal-lifestyle through his words, by not caring how he speaks (for the most part). If I were to suddenly change him to be like every other noble, concerned about the way he looked, dressed and acted, that would strip me of the entire point. Kaleel's entire basis is to find his path, and take what he can get from it.
People OOCly like/dislike Kaleel because of the way he is, and I would NEVER change him for the sake of my own desire. He adds a wrench to the noble scene, he's the wild card. And mind you, I made my goal for Kaleel a reality, he's technically a noble. The only non-Ailor noble, I could call it a day.
This throws into my original thought process that I didn't make this post entirely for myself. Kaleel's chances of being landed are slim at best unless I wanted to change him to be a
cookie cutter noble, which there's no chance of that and a topic for another post altogether. Though, there are some Qadir and Elfs (though not currently, in Marty's words) could be elegant, and deserve a chance. Perhaps even allowing Eleven nobility could revive the scene, I certainly would partake in such a thing, I played an elf for a long time and enjoyed it.
And while my argument was that players should be able to be nobility whether they're Ailor or not is unfair, which I have been proven wrong, and rightfully admit. I remain with my amended statement with Marty's response in mind that there should be something to
look toward eventually (with work) as a non-Ailor character. I say this because not everyone has two and a half years to throw at a character and hope to the Spirit that they have the luck to make the correct friends and political allies to become what they want (And some of these people want a challenge, but not a 1/10000000 odd challenge, which is what they're at). Simultaneously it should not just be handed out to any bucko on the street, there would be work involved.
Ailor get nobility as their special thing to look at and work toward but non-Ailor have nothing but defying discrimination. My point is valid.