Gotta love this wonderful community eh? "We don't care about problems that effect players just outside of server-run safezones, now go away and don't come back." I've had issues with being hunted by players from the spawn of New Ceardia, so I can say that I find it pathetic that people would just hang around such a location and kill poor noobs exploring the server for the first time.
I can't give you a solution for this issue except to work out meetings between you and whoever you needed to meet, or to join a faction nearby the location you need to reach. Sadly, this is legal under the games rules, so you'll just need to use ur imagination. I suggest enderpearling 3 or 4 times to get away from the spawn area without being followed - also, use /dynmap hide.