Just to clarify, I don't mind if you do this, and I wouldn't stop role playing with you or anything like that if you do enjoy doing it.  I just get way too into the mindset of my characters, and I really don't want to think like a girl when I am brainstorming on how to progress my character.

Like many have said above. This is a roleplay server. A clean slate where you can be and do whatever you want.