Countess Marie Blanc: The Art Of Etiquette

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Etiquette plays a significant role in the lives of nobility, helping them navigate social interactions with grace and poise. Here is a list of etiquette guidelines that nobility can adhere to when interacting with others.​

1. Greetings: Nobility should initiate and respond to greetings with warmth and respect. A slight bow or curtsy is appropriate when greeting someone of equal or higher rank.
   
   
2. Introductions: When introducing oneself or others, nobility should use formal language and include full titles and honorifics. For example, "May I introduce Lord John Smith, Duke of Devonshire?"
   
   
3. Handshakes: When offered a handshake, nobility should respond with a firm but not overly aggressive grip. It is customary for men to initiate handshakes with other men, while women may extend their hand if they feel comfortable doing so.
   
   
4. Conversation: Nobility should engage in polite and engaging conversation, showing genuine interest in others.
   
   
5. Listening: Active listening is essential. Maintain eye contact, nod, and respond appropriately to show that you are attentive and interested in the conversation.
   
   
6. Speaking: Nobility should speak with clarity, using proper grammar and avoiding slang or offensive language. Maintain a moderate tone of voice and avoid interrupting others.
   
   
7. Courtesy: Politeness and courtesy should be upheld at all times. Use phrases such as "please," "thank you," and "excuse me" frequently. Offer assistance when needed.
   
   
8. Respect personal space: Nobility should be mindful of personal space boundaries. Avoid standing too close to others, especially when engaging in conversation.
   
   
9. Dining etiquette: Familiarize yourself with formal dining etiquette, including the proper use of utensils, napkin placement, and table manners. Wait for the host or hostess to begin eating before starting your own meal.
   
   
10. Dress code: Nobility should dress appropriately for each occasion, adhering to the specific dress codes outlined for formal events, ceremonies, or social gatherings.
    
    
11. Gift-giving: When attending formal events or visiting someone's home, it is customary for nobility to bring a thoughtful gift. Consider the occasion and the recipient's preferences when selecting a gift.
    
    
12. Thank-you notes: Sending handwritten thank-you notes after attending social events or receiving gifts is considered a thoughtful gesture.
    
    
13. Punctuality: Nobility should make an effort to arrive on time for social engagements. Being fashionably late is generally frowned upon, as it may disrupt the event and show a lack of respect for others' time.
    
    
14. Hosting: When hosting events, nobility should ensure their guests' comfort and enjoyment. Pay attention to the smallest details, such as seating arrangements, food and beverage choices, and entertainment.

Remember that etiquette may vary slightly depending on cultural norms, regional customs, or specific occasions. However, adhering to these general guidelines can help nobility navigate social interactions with grace and maintain their esteemed status in society.

Lady Marie Blanc,
Countess of Floquet​

 

[_Chui]

Lord Alistair Roox read over the text, nodding silently to himself in agreement. He took it at face value, memorizing it to heart.

"It should be more then nobility who practice etiquette, as a majority of it is common custody."

 

[MantaRey]

The publication reaches the Summer Palace where one dark-clad Lady Peirgarten holds it fast in one hand, a cup of coffee held in the other. Across from her sits a much larger counterpart: Her poor, unfortunate guard, who receives all her commentary in the place of peace and quiet in the start of the day.
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"And how is anyone meant to pretend to be interested in the small-talk these people try to hold?" Yvea says with a scoff. A bout of silence follows, shortly accompanied by the emphatic jamming of her forefinger on the table. "Active listening? Anyone can actively listen without having to stare at someone else's eyeballs to indicate so. Gods, the nerve." (@Scribbe )