I am not questioning what you say, nor the experience you bring with you, but let me ask you this:

Why would you quit a place when only one out of many aspects changes? Would you start over again at another place rather than adapting to the current situation?

For me as a very new player(long ago), I encountered a similar situation. Someone killed me, my character, took all my stuff and went away....What to do now? The community was great, I had the chance for really RP settings but I lost everything. I did decide to adapt, let my character survive barely and travel away.

If everything is right besides one little thing, get around it as good as you can. You don't have to change everything, nor loose all you have by quiting what you do. Adapt your ways to the facts as good as you can.